Turn about is fair play

I am very tired of hearing this from people: “Why didn’t she come forward sooner? Why did she wait so long?” Have you been paying attention? Have you seen how people treat someone who comes forward with rape or harassment charges? It must be one of the scariest things in the world to do, to . . . → Read More: Turn about is fair play

Is there a reason for everything?

Bad things happen to good people, and it can be hard to figure out why. Could it be it is hard to figure it out because there really isn’t a reason? Maybe the reason someone got sick or got fired isn’t because of something they did or didn’t do, or because it would make them . . . → Read More: Is there a reason for everything?

Fear

There are some things that are important for me to do that I can’t seem to get done. It has been driving me crazy, and I think I may have figured it out. It is fear that is holding me back: fear of the unknown, fear that I will not do it right, fear of . . . → Read More: Fear

RIP John McCain

John McCain died last week; he will most certainly be missed. I didn’t always agree with what he said and did, but most of the time he seemed to be doing it because he thought it was best for the country. He really seemed to have a love of this country that transcended political parties. . . . → Read More: RIP John McCain

Fairness

I have an intense sense of fairness, and while this may seem like a good thing, sometimes it is not. The world is not always fair; sometimes bad things happen to good people, people who don’t do the right thing are rewarded, while people who do the right thing get punished. I struggle with this . . . → Read More: Fairness

There is no “other”

What do you stand for? It’s an important thing to know. Regardless of your politics, religion, or anything else, what do believe?

I believe we are all one, and that we all don’t realize this yet. It is a concept that, once recognized by all, is going to help make this world a better place. . . . → Read More: There is no “other”

Capable, Creative, Resourceful, and Whole

I have all the answers that I am searching for; I am capable, creative, resourceful, and whole. I truly do believe this is true for everybody, but I can believe it about you way easier than I can believe it about me.

I do believe this in my head, and honestly, most of the time . . . → Read More: Capable, Creative, Resourceful, and Whole

I do life the way that works for me

The older I get, the more I realize that it is important for me to do the things that are important to me, regardless of what other people think. When I was younger, it seemed important to do what everyone else was doing; it was important for me to fit in. These days that does . . . → Read More: I do life the way that works for me

Purple hair

I have purple hair. Do you know why I have purple hair? Because I like it. Not because it makes me look younger (I don’t know that it really does that), or because I am rebellious, or trying to make a statement, or anything else. I have put purple in my hair because I like . . . → Read More: Purple hair

Advice

I don’t mind getting advice; in fact, I welcome it most of the time. But telling me that I “have to ” do something, or treating me like I am stupid because I am not doing the latest thing that you saw on the internet is not giving me advice. Honestly, when someone talks to . . . → Read More: Advice