New things

I try to be open to new things, but it is hard sometimes. For instance, they have changed the interface for writing posts for this site. I had no warning (that I saw, anyway), and now I have already spent over 60 minutes doing what I used to do in about 20 . . . → Read More: New things

I do life the way that works for me

The older I get, the more I realize that it is important for me to do the things that are important to me, regardless of what other people think. When I was younger, it seemed important to do what everyone else was doing; it was important for me to fit in. These days that does . . . → Read More: I do life the way that works for me

Holiday Traditions

I need to get away from all the political crap out there, so I am going to go get a Christmas tree this weekend. I didn’t get one last year because we were in the middle of a bathroom remodel and it seemed that everywhere in my house was a staging area for the construction. . . . → Read More: Holiday Traditions

Random thoughts on the state of our country

I understand that some people think we have gone overboard with political correctness. I don’t understand why some people seem to think that the opposite of being politically correct is being rude. If that is the choice, then I will choose to be PC. I do not see the need to purposely hurt people, or . . . → Read More: Random thoughts on the state of our country

It’s not over until it’s over

I am going through some rough times right now, and I ran across something President Barack Obama said in his last couple days as president: “…the only thing that is the end of the world is the end of the world.” Wow – that really speaks to me right now. I think it is the . . . → Read More: It’s not over until it’s over

Acknowledge the changes in your life

When something is over, it deserves to be acknowledged. Whether you are happy to see its completion or not, take time to say goodbye. It may be some event that is finished, a relationship that has run its course, a job that is over, or anything else.

It is hard to come to the end . . . → Read More: Acknowledge the changes in your life

There is always hope

There is hope. There is ALWAYS hope. I don’t always see it right away, and so will wallow in my despair for a while, but eventually I will find that hope and start feeling a wee bit better.

And it seems to me that it is important to recognize hope in all aspects of our . . . → Read More: There is always hope

A new day

It dawns on me today, that even though some things are changing for what I perceive to be the worse, my head seems to be waking up and doing quite well these days. I really prefer not to have to give up anything, but maybe it isn’t too bad to give up a little to . . . → Read More: A new day

Choices & decisions

I am always learning from sessions with my clients – and I hope I always do! Today we were discussing how not only do we get to make our own choices, but others in our lives get to make their own choices as well. And we may not always agree with the choice they make. . . . → Read More: Choices & decisions

Recalibration part 2

Well, I’ve had a nice vacation, and it is time to get back into the swing of things. I said at the end of the last post that I would give you some examples of when I have had to recalibrate, so here goes.

I have a GPS in my car, and sometimes I use . . . → Read More: Recalibration part 2