Forgiveness

I have been thinking a lot about forgiveness lately. I feel like it is incumbent on me to forgive anyone who has done me wrong, and I think that is okay. And I also think it is okay to remember that forgiving someone doesn’t necessarily mean that they are welcome to remain an integral part . . . → Read More: Forgiveness

Holding a grudge?

I try to not hold a grudge. However, there ARE some things that have happened to me that I don’t necessarily want to forget, basically in order to protect myself against them happening to me again. I don’t think that means I am holding a grudge – at least in my mind. I think I . . . → Read More: Holding a grudge?

Intentions

I know that most people have good intentions, and I try to take that into account. Even if you have good intentions, you are still responsible for you words and actions. You don’t get to say, “Hey – my intentions were good, so you should ignore the fact that I just said something really rude . . . → Read More: Intentions